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He just keeps cheating..shouldI leave or not?

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Question - (13 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *scbubbles writes:

hey every one i need some advice other than my close friend my mom and others close to me well....here it goes.....iam 18 yrs.old i have a 5 month son and his dad is now in jail i broke up with him bc he cheated on me and i found this out until now that hes in jail i dont know wat tooo doo i love him sooooo much we were 2gether 4 about 3yrs and at 1st it was all just a game but it got serious...he cheated and gave me an std and it broke my heart sooo bad i pakd my bags and left i came bak about 2 months later and only went rite bak 2 him i 4gave him and he went and did it again with one of my worst enemies again i 4gave him and then later i found out while i had been gone he was havin sex with another girl that made me reallyyy mad and crushed my heart again bc he had sworn to change and cryd and got on his knees and begd me 4 4givness he said he did it bc he needed comfort 4rm some1 bc i had left and left him..so i let it go then now that hes in jail that girl came up to me at his moms house and told me that him and her had a baby i was shoked and i cryd and cryd and cryd his sister asked me did i know about it and i said no she said he does have a lil gurl with her and she was born 2 weeks after urs i couldnt help but cry i felt betrayed and played she told me she wasnt sure if it was his or not that she only says it is and dat he denies it i asked him about it when he calld me 4rm prison that nite and he swore on everything that the lil ;gurl isnt his he said if i wantd a dna test then he would get one...i said ok and let it go again but ;i jus cant do it anymore i feel soooo much hate and anger towards him now but then again i love him soooo much i want to be with him.. while i was pregnant he took care of me payd all my bills and really treatd me rite he was actually their 4 me hes allways been good to me except all the cheating...i jus dont know if i should really jus put a stop 2 this now and let him go i dont wanna cry and hurt and feel sad all the time he jus keeps breakin my heart again and again and i cant stand it any more he tells me that ever since i told him i was pregnant since that day he promised 2 never cheat on me and b here 4 me through thick and thin he asked m3 2 4 give him...and dat baby was not his dat hes 100 percent sure..he aske me 2 give him one last chance 4 are son and dat he s gonna make it all betta 4 us when he comes home he tells me that he loves me and that he cant be without me that he would rather die...wat do yall think??? am i wrong? should i take him bak? should i try one last time?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009):

you definetly should leave him i have been through this with a guy i really like but this guy clearly doesnt care about hurting your feelings so ditch him trust me i've done it and i felt much more happier your a nice girl and he doesnt deserve you find someone who appericiates your kindness dont feel sorry for him when he begs you

BE STRONG!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (13 February 2009):

Honeypie agony auntWho do you let anyone treat you like that? That isn't love.

Start to have some self respect and to love yourself. Put you and your son first.. The daddy isn't worth a darn. He can not be "cured" of cheated and obvisouly he likes then skany and std infested.. who know what he would bring hom next of std's..

Find yourself a man who will treat you well, love you and your son and respect you.

Good luck,

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A female reader, Mrs. Mom United States +, writes (13 February 2009):

Mrs. Mom agony auntDefinitely leave. Accept his financial help for your son, but do not have a sexual relationship with him. He keeps cheating, and you don't want that, right? He's going to keep cheating, so just let him go now and save yourself some grief.

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