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writes:I have been having a fwb relationship with a close guy friend of mine. We talk every night and we spend quite a bit of time together, and most of it is not just about the physical things. I was pretty upset before because i felt like he paid more attention and hung out more with his guy mates than with me, and when i told him this he said that he never realised it and that he would gladly spend more time with me if i asked him. In between this conversation i said that i didn't really want to continue this whole physical thing anymore and he said he was fine with whatever i wanted us to be. But during the week he said he wanted to spend valentines with me to show me that he did like hanging out with me. What is this supposed to mean? We talked about a serious relationship before but we are both scared of commitment because when we did date before it did not end well. I'm not sure how to treat him because i feel like sometimes he just wants a physical relationship with me but other times he seems to want more. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): hey how did valentine`s day go we want to know, did anything change?let us know!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): I just read this and thought i was reading about myself!!! Im in exactly the same situation as you and sometimes i get totally confused. My advice would be talk to him thats the only way you are both going to know where u stand! however sometime the fwb relationship doesnt work because somebody always wants more than the other person!!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (13 February 2009):
 Enjoy the Valentine's Day with him. If you want more from him you need to be open and HONEST about it. It will wither work out or not. That goes for FWB too. Most people have a hard time not getting emotionally attached to someone they have sex with. Specially if the sex is good and the company better.
What have you got to loose? really ?
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reader, bee n me +, writes (13 February 2009):
it sounds like you want more than your expressing,everyone is afraid of getting hurt at one time or an other, yet we all have to take a chance,maybe he wants more than fwb,too!try asking him again,be true to yourself,and be honest in what you really want....LOL!
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