New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Why can't women just say no?

Tagged as: Sex<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (13 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *noms writes:

im new and im pretty horrified at some of these stories, why is there never a lack of lerking guys waiting to take advantage of these younger and somtimes underage women, its like theres a perv lerking in every family, on every street waiting to pounce on the emotionaly unstable, i mean where are all the stories about women who just said no! and left it at that, cant women say no? just an interesting thought.

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2009):

some girls just don't have the confidence to say no to the guys who try it on. i think it is disgusting that there are so many nasty men out there who prey on these young girls.

but then i guess some women can be like that with some young guys. it's sadly just the society we live in. you will always get weak girls not being able to say no to guys when it comes down to doing something they don't want to do.

also don't take everything on this website as situations that happen to everybody, as remember alot of the people who ask questions on here are the ones that need help and can't say no.

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, anoms United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2009):

anoms is verified as being by the original poster of the question

anoms agony auntThanks, good response, I remember when I was 11 and a family friend in her 30's tried to take advantage of me, I felt awkward but I still told my mum and that was the last time anything like that happened, thank god.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, miss jane United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2009):

i know i said no i was very nearly raped when i was young by a friend i punched him in the face when he tried needless to say he left me alone and then a caretaker locked me in a classroom but i managed to get out i agree some women and girls are too weak why do you go out with someone that is abusive to you i cant get my head around that

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Why can't women just say no?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312611999979708!