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26-29,
anonymous
writes:let's say it snowed all day long.if a guy is really into a girl would he throw snowballs at her or ''wash'' her face with snow or not?today it snowed,so the kids from our school had big snow fights in the breaks and we had a lot of fun.my crush was there too.he was looking towards my direction almost all the time and was throwing snowballs at my girl friends.he threw only one snowball towards my direction,to get my attention,i guess.and later on,when 3 of my girl classmates were trying to get at the physics lab,they couldn't because of him,who was throwing snowballs at them.when i appeared,he immediately looked in my eyes,sweetly smiled and said with a pretty soft voice ''i have nothing in my hand''(it sounded like don't worry,i won't hit or hurt you),but i saw he had a snowball.when the girls appeared,he threw that snowball at them and ran away.he liked me a lot and everyone says he still likes me,but is afraid to admit it.i'm the only girl he comes after since the end of 2007.(but last year he tried to make me jealous with my best friend).now he kinda ignores me again.do you think he likes me?should i worry?i'm 13 and he's 14,if that counts
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reader, salvadda  +, writes (14 February 2009):
 Of course it counts. It doesn't matter how old you are. It does matter how you go about it though.I won't tell you it's puppy love or how at ur age it will pass. I will tell u that boys mature later than girls. Boys at that age can be afraid of showing a girl that they care about how they feel. Sometimes they tease, joke, play *thus the snowballs*. Some boys will not go near a girl they like if they feel that they might be rejected, admire from afar. It does sound like he does like u, but might be shy about it. Your right to think that he might want to get ur attention also. Have you ever tried just hanging around him as a friend? Meeting up somewhere where u know he hangs out? If u have the same lunch time, you can try bringing him a treat, and try to have lunch with him. Try to break the ice and you be the first to talk with him. That jealous bit might have been to get ur attention, you can speak to that girl and maybe ask her if he was serious about her. How he acted with her. It is very hard to figure out boys at that age, and I know it makes u think negitve thoughts. Don't get too caught up in this. Don't let it get to you. Try to think possitive and know that it is just him being shy. Try to become close ask if you can study together that is a sure way to find out. Even if you do find out he doesn't like you in the same way that you like him, don't let it get you down. At least you will know the truth, and know that r prob. lots of boys that like u and u may not even it...Take care and good luck.
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