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writes:I am a waitress at a high class restaurant... and I'm in love with one of our regular customers... The problem is, he doesn't know I'm in love with him.. The reason is because I always remain professional towards customers. He usually visits our restaurant with his sister. At first I didn't like them, because they acted a bit arrogant. One day he was having dinner alone at the restaurant, but the staff didnt notice him while he was sitting at the table. I noticed and served him. After that, he became very friendly and even asked my name! And sometimes I will small-talk to him at the table. I speak professionally, the same way I talk to other customers. But his sister is a bitch! I don't know why she is always mean to me! She always interrupt me abruptly!Just today it happened again! They were finished with their meals but I didnt know that they were, cuz their plates were not empty yet! And it was quite busy... She yelled at me! "Are we still going to get our check or what?" She never asked for a check! Then her brother said, But dont u want dessert sis? I want dessert! :D What do you have? And for the rest of the time... He just asks for drinks or if I can take a plate away.. whatever.. sigh.. I'm already happy that he greets and says goodbye to me apart from the other staff-members. He is not even handsome.. but his eyes are so beautiful! I think he is nice to me because I'm nice to him.. and every customer actually.. And nothing more :( I should mention that they are rich... but thats not a problem cuz im not very poor either... anyway.. I dont know what to do.. Why is his sister such a bitch!? What do I do with these feelings.. I havent had for a long time... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): awww! that's soo sweet! sisters can be bitches i guess lol.
I think you should have a chat with him when he is alone and give flirting a go!! if he does not respond to the flirting just treat him like a normal customer and see what he does! I hope this turns out to be a pride and prejudice story!!!!!!
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reader, anoms  +, writes (15 February 2009):
 hey i jus want you to know i go places where i like to eat too, and theres this one girl who realy likes me, so friendly and shes the most beautiful thing i ever seen, she always has a huge smile and never breaks eye contact and we just keeps waving an smiling back and fourth when shes working. and i think she has a boyfriend and what im saying is that even with all these signals you can never be that sure. one day im going to go in ther and she will have moved on, i dont want to think about what could have been, so im going to take a chance next time i go in ther and i think you should to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm too shy to say anything that sounds like flirting.... sigh..
I wanted to thank everyone for posting a reply :) I really appreciate it!!!! I feel much better and I will keep writing updates if something will happen..
**God Bless**
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): Hi,If I were you, and she was rude to me, I would AVOID their table if SHE was eating with him.You can still smile at him so he knows you're interested.If he eats ALONE, then try to get his table. He will notice this, and he'll WANT to come without his sister if you are avoiding him when she's with him. Do you understand? Don't ask him out 1st, because he should be the one to make the 1st move. You deserve the best, and to be treated like the good woman you are :)p.s. I like suresheexists comment to say, "It's a pleasure to wait on the customer with the nice eyes" :) That's all he needs to know you're interested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): Hi, take care your job, he is a regular client, so an important client for your boss.If I was in your situation, I would do some more investigation about him and trying to meet him out of the restaurant. If you cannot wait, take your chance when he comes to dinner alone and say something like: 'my client with the most beautiful eyes of the world'. (but again, better tell him out of the restaurant)(Say client and not man, you need to keep distance)Good luck and keep us posted.
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reader, Mrs. Mom  +, writes (13 February 2009):
 Maybe some time after he is finished with his meal and he is leaving, you can slip out and catch him and ask him if he'd like to have coffee with you some time. Then invite him for a few days later.
The sister may sense that you're attracted to him, and that's why she's unfriendly to you. Or maybe she's just that way--be prepared for her to continue to be unfriendly if you get lucky and get anywhere with your guy.
If the man doesn't seem interested, then just smile and get back to work. Make sure this doesn't interfere with your living. And good luck!
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reader, anoms +, writes (13 February 2009):
i am totally totaly lost..let me summarise-your a professional and he's a customer, he asked you your name, he has cute eyes...voila...your in love with him, if thats the case what the hell am i doing wrong. ok back to your situation, im sure he's going to be eating alone again at some point, if i were him i would want some stern signals because i wouldnt hit on a waitress unless i knew for sure she was interested, check for rings before you make your move, if he's well off he is probably settled with a partner. im sure you can be subtle and keep asking him if thers anything you can do for him while staying professional if you get me, goodluck.
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