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writes:Okay so i've been talking to this girl for like three weeks and then at a party she asked me to go up to her room because she didn't feel good and we ended up cuddling and making out and it was great ... we did this for like 3 days straight, she seemed to like me .and then she tells me that she is still hurt because she got dumped by a guy she'd been going out with for like a month and she's not ready for a relationship yet but when she'd be ready she'd tell me, she also said things were moving too fast and she wasn't ready for any relationship stuff yet but we can still talk , text hang out ... what should i do ? is she just saying that because she doesn't like me ?
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reader, sugarsweet  +, writes (13 February 2009):
I can honestly say no.She clearly does like you but it's hard to trust someone and jump into a situation when you've just got hurt.She's proabbaly feeling very vulnerable right now and just wants to feel loved and alot of females get this out of cuddles and affection.The fact that she wants to ahng out with you shows she wants to get to know you better which is good as this gives you both a chance to access each other as indivuals, you can see whetehr you two are going to be compatable. But don't push her into any situations as this could jeprediase a future. Just support her and reasure her that your there for her and you understand and be patient with her.You sound like a lovely guy so show this, but don't wait around for her because things don't always turn out as you'd like
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reader, armyboy  +, writes (13 February 2009):
Thats crazy dude once apon a time their was this girl i met at votec my senior year in high school and i had a huge crush on her but she didnt even notice me and I thought i would never had a chance cause she was beautiful. well a few weeks later we both ended up at the same party and withsome liquid courage i talked to her a and later that night we were sloppy drunk kissing in the chair. The next we ran into each other and it was all awkward because we both thought neither one liked each other but we ran into eachother again by stroke of luck because my best friend happend to be dating her roommate and we talked hit it off and have been together over a year and plan on getting married after i get out of college in dec.
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reader, muirbear +, writes (13 February 2009):
if you have already made out with her than if she wants to she will fell free to do it when she is ready but try not to constantly ask her or bring it up to her. if she wants to hang out go. if you want to be involved with her than try to make her feel like she is free to make a move whenever she is ready to but try not to say it with words. earn her trust and give her respect, that is what she really wants from you. good luck and i hope everything works out.
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reader, anoms +, writes (13 February 2009):
 no dude, let her have her space, if shes feeling like its moving to quick then just hang out as much as possible, stay friends and keep the interest going, if she doesnt like you you'l be the first to know that way, gudluk.
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (13 February 2009):
 It's hard to say. She might be trying to let you down gently. My advice is to continue to be friendly with her but don't set your heart on having her as a lover. See other women, and see what happens.
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