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*eeboy55
writes:HiIve asked a girl out and she said yes. We are going to the cinema i think (lol). I just donno what do do on the first date. I get nervous around girls and this is gonna be really hard :P any tips? Reply to this Question
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reader, deeboy55 +, writes (15 February 2009):
deeboy55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks i was worrying about that
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (14 February 2009):
well it all depends on if she is ready as well. maybe make a little gesture and put your arm around her on the seat. but for god's sake don't yawn and stretch as you do it. that's so cheesey and awful. i wish guys wouldn't do that!
also you will beable to see if she is happy with you by her body language. if she is leaning towards you then she really likes you, if she is leaning away from you then she is abit unsure of you. during the film just give her a little smile now and then. don't talk through it though! remember it's a first date. no need to make too many moves on the girl. it may send of the wrong vibes.
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reader, deeboy55 +, writes (14 February 2009):
deeboy55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the advice i will use it all. Is it too early to hug and that in the cinema? what do i do when were watching the movie?
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reader, anoms +, writes (13 February 2009):
 whatever happens dont just take her home after the cinema, dont make the mistake of not useing this time to get to know her, even if your just sitting on a bench somwhere chatting, idealy over dinner though or a bite to eat, women love drama lol so giv her somthing to think about even if its made up lol, gudluk.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (13 February 2009):
cinema's are a good first date for young teens. go for a comedy, so you both have something to laugh at and break the ice with a bit. buy her some popcorn. the gesture will be sweet and a little romantic. don't worry about making any moves on her, after all it is only your first date! just talk about what you both are into and what you like doing, fav movies,music,etc.
during the movie remember she is there and maybe just give her a little smile now and then, so she knows that you are happy to be on the date.
at the end of the date, if it goes well just casually ask if she would like to do something else another time, like bowling or see another movie. keep it light and not serious. if you don't feel ready for a kiss, just give a little hug or peck on the cheek. no pressure! just enjoy yourself.
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reader, deeboy55 +, writes (13 February 2009):
deeboy55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks for the advice. Im only 15 and i dont smoke and im not confident enough to be arrogent :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): I'd reckon the best thing to do is relax, and be yourself. That last thing you need to do is pretend to be someone else - it's a real pain to keep it up.
Avoid beer, cigarettes and arrogance. I'd not bother thinking about a knee-trembler 'round the back of the cinema. If it goes well, a tasteful, gentlemanly kiss is best. Ask her to call you (avoiding the awkward 'when is it acceptable to call' discussions).
Film choice is crucial. Avoid Rom-coms and action films - something funny.
Best of luck!
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reader, miss jane +, writes (13 February 2009):
i mgoing for a date to the cinema tomorro lol but its not my fist date with him. just be yourself thats what i like the best in guys that i go out with
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reader, iSmil3y  +, writes (13 February 2009):
Going to the cinema is good for a first date! Keep that plan! If you wanted to do something after the cinema though, try going out to eat. Nothing fancy or special. Maybe something like going out for pizza.
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