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writes:My wife had an affair and through intimate vetting it seems to have made us more open and intimate with one another. Has any one else experienced this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): Most people will think it's absolutely crazy that cheating can actually help your relationship. But it does actually help in some cases. The major factor in the cheating is whether or not it was an emotional affair or just purely sex. Most women can't seperate the two. Most men find it very easy to do. That being said, I'm speaking of couples who have been together 10 or more years. That's seems to be when everyone starts having the thoughts of " what if this or that. " "am I or is he/ she good". If you can keep it strictly sex I think it can be a good thing. It relieves all those crazy little thoughts out of your mind.
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reader, hurtingcouple  +, writes (13 February 2009):
yes that happened to us. we cant keep our hands off each other any more! cheating really sucks! but sometimes its a one time thing & can give your romantic relationship a boost. hope every thing goes well for you!
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reader, huneygyrl +, writes (13 February 2009):
 I've heard of situatuions like that.
Do you trust her, again? Does that question ever come across your mind if she cheating again?
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