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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while now but every time it's missionary... he just won't let me get on top for some reason... Any good suggestions for great wild sex? !!!=] Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): Wow, I agree that it is a communication problem, but its bigger than just what sexual position to be in for making love. It sounds to me like your boyfriend may have some issues about sex that can only be worked through by going through some intense education and work together. Of course, if he has "issues" that means you do, too or you wouldn't have picked him! So together you can work out this stuff by going to www.thisisgreatsex.com and learning about how to talk about what is going on between you without falling into reactive attacks on each other or choking off communication because of fear.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (14 February 2009):
why don't you both try sitting up facing eachother? basically he sits on a chair and you sit on top of him. or he crosses his legs and sits down, like a buda. then you wrap your legs around him and he helps support your hips while you thrust.
how about you lay on a bed or sofa and he kneels and enters you. doggie style even? great for hitting the G spot.
i think you both need to talk about what you both like and experiment abit with different posistions. it can be good fun and very exciting.
maybe introduce a sexy game of twister. see what posistions you can get into while playing the game and see if they will work for some sexual fun.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 February 2009):
The key to great sex is communication.
The fact you haven't a clue why he likes missionary means that you don't understand what it is about being on top of you that he likes.
If you don't know why he likes something then you can't know what other similar things to try on him next.
TALK to him about it and find out what he'd like to try and what he doesn't like and why not.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): Why won't he let you get on top? I find that strange, besides if he won't let you do that simple little position then he might not let you do anything else.
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reader, MyDestiny  +, writes (13 February 2009):
 just ask him why he wont let you go on top..
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