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writes:When I was 13 years old I met this Special someone, we both feel in love the minute we saw each other. And now we are all grown up ages 19 and 20 and we just got married this year. But there is a big problem... Last year we broke up for about 6 months, and in those 6 months we both dated someone else. Then we both realized that we couldn't live without each other so we got back together. But during the time we were apart he feel in love with somebody else and I did too. But I guess it was worse on my end because I got pregnant. But I didn't keep the baby, but the main point is I was pregnant. So now we have been married for 5 months and every time we get into it he always throws that back into my face which is not cool. He also calls the girl that he used to date when we were broken up. I mean he calls this girl EVERY time we get into it. What should I do about this problem? Please help me out if you can... thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009): I believe what you two have is an issue with immaturity. You need to put your foot down and say "stop it" and mean it, walk out of the house, stay with your mom/friend/etc. Reward actions that you like, do not reward bad behaviour. He'll get it sooner or later.
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reader, ivette_santos +, writes (21 August 2009):
im in a similar situation i think if u wanna be with someone that offends u when he gets mad thats on u but u think that being with someone that brings up a painfull past is worth being with he doesnt deserve u.
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reader, lily13524 +, writes (21 August 2009):
 you need to tell him accept that you made a mistake and you will never do it again.and it makes you feel bad everytime we are into it! tell him how he makes you feels,explain ur self in a positive way,no need to raise your voice it might just get it worse.
gud luck!
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