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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend of 1 year and 4 months has recently dumped me as he didnt think i was emotionally ready, this was my "1st love" and have been very upset and finding it difficult to live on as his best friend when i still love him, i miss his company very much too.Im not sure whether i should try to prove to him that im not moody or move on, even so, how do i do this??Please help!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): Hey, its the author here. Just wanted to say, i didnt check your advice till 2day, and im glad i didnt! (no offense) me n my ex are friends, not best, but we talk all the time and stuff, just getting on with life. And i have a new bf, hes much nicer.
But thank you anyway
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009): One does NOT "live on as his best freind" after being dumped. This is hurtful... when a relationship ends, it ends... you don't hang with each other, you go away from each other so that the healing can happen. Girls that continue to hang out with guys (or vice versa) can do alot of damage as the one who was dumped often is hopeful that the relationship to be revived...
your 13 to 15... odds are good you are emotionally immature and moody... it's NATURAL at your age... you have a stew of hormones running through your body... girls get moody as a result!!! And at 14 or 15 (while most people belive that you're mature) you not mature as you will be... your a young teen... you don't have life expeience... ask any 17 year old if looking back 3 years if they now belive that they were mature at 14 and they'll laugh their ass off!
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