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Which of these two men is my better choice?

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Question - (21 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Pls someone should tell me which of these two men is my better choice? Note: i kinda like both of them. pls dont ignore it isnt sooo long.

Man A: physically, Taller than i am and moderately built. He is not handsome and not ugly. He is not working but has some sources of income. Not rich though. He always comes around to hang out with me and he cud spend his last cash on me. he is good with my siblings but my parents dont like him much coz he doesnt work and still lives with his parents. He sacrificed a lot for me which i found out without his knowlege. He had a misunderstanding with his parents coz they didnt agree on us till they agreed. Have known him for 16 months but we have been dating for Nine Months.

Man B: Physically, i am a little bit taller than him, (not really noticable, He is HANDSOME. he works under a politician and has a lot of income. i cud say he is rich. He doesnt quite come around coz he is too busy and when he does, he stays for few minutes. He spends like more than a week before asking to come see me and sometimes, he would say, he is sorry he cant make it, or he is in front of our house but something has just come up so i should send someone to come recieve what he brought me. He spends alot on me. i mean a lot. My parents like him coz he works and is generous to me. he lives out of his parent's house. i have known him for 3 months now.

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A female reader, devastated2008 United States +, writes (21 August 2009):

devastated2008 agony auntMaybe you should consider that neither one is THE ONE. Your parents object to Man A and it sounds like some of their objections are valid, but mostly you don't seem into him. Man B, you mostly talk about his money, your parents like him better, but again you don't seem into him.

Why does it have to be one or the other? Sounds like you need to move on and find Man C and maybe with him you won't have to ask anyone for their opinion because you will know that he's THE ONE.

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