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writes:I'm a 20 year old guy, and i think i am in love with a 17 year old girl, I have known her all my life but just realised how beautiful and how nice her personality is. I sent her a message the other day telling her how i felt but the next day i sent one telling her it was the wrong person i had sent the first one to. Please can anyone let me know what to do should i tell her how i feel or should i just wait for her, although i do not know if she feels the same. Reply to this Question
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (23 August 2009):
 The age - dont be silly - my feloow is 6 years older than me. My father married a woman thirty years younger than him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your answers, I am going to tell her how i feel tonight, I will let you all no how i get on good or bad it's better the truth is out there. The other problem is the age difference, although it's not illegal is it wrong?
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (22 August 2009):
 Ah...the girl next door. Swallow your inhibitions and be honest. There's way too much confusion about love these days, and the world would be a happier place if people just said what they really meant and let it flow from there. She might reject you, but she might feel the same way and you could both end up really happy. Best of luck! :)
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reader, nightwalker  +, writes (22 August 2009):
 If you have known her all your life.. then she must know its hard for you to express your feelings... dont forget to let her know that... so she could see how much youll do for her...
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reader, vba67 +, writes (22 August 2009):
I agree with the other two posters, you should definitely tell her how you truly feel. Only two things could happen if you tell her. She will either accept your advances or reject them altogether. Only one thing will happen if you never tell her at all, you'll never be a couple. A 50% chance of being together is better than 0% of being a couple any day of the week. I hope everything turns out well, so good luck!
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reader, Libra1963 +, writes (21 August 2009):
No harm in telling someone. Its a real compliment. If you like her do not keeping going on distancing yourself and see how she reacts. You were foolish to lie about the text.Be confident but discrete.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009): Well these things can go either way, like the first poster said, it was the best thing that ever happened to them. Me on the other hand, didn't even tell a women how i felt about her, she just picked up on it and has not spoken to me ever since so, i guess you won't know unless you try.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (21 August 2009):
 why dont u just tell her how you feel?
sure you risk getting rejected by her but life's all about taking chances.
Dont be shy, or else you never will know what might have been and she may end up meeting someone else and then it might be too late for you.
If she knows you as a friend already maybe she will give it a chance.
Good luck!
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reader, chaz.v +, writes (21 August 2009):
hey. personaly i think it would be best to tell her how you feel or you will never no. a guy that i new all my life took that chance and it was the best thing that ever happened to me. i think that if u dont take the chance you will never no and regret it :) good luck
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