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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey guys i need your advice please....i worked as a customer service and i met this guy wich he gave me his cell number. by all means,i never thought to call him because i wasn't really interested on him or on dating anybody anyway due to bad past relationship.To make the story short, I called him he was so happy. he told me he was divorced about eleven months ago. One night I was talking to him on the phone, there was a female in his house he asked to call me back. The day after i asked him who was that he said that was his tenant. HMMm... a female tenant. It was kind of suspecious. We finally went out to eat. he was talking about how some people are lucky to have sex whenever they want to. That was a red flag to me. The same night he called me to compliment me and to say how much he likes me and how he regretted he let me go without our first kiss. he seems pretty busry because he don't call often but in the meantime he seems interested on me. He called me for a secomd date and he also had his brother in town I asked him to double date therefore I invited my cousin. On the second date my cousin was acting very professional and also lying about her profession by saying she's a doctor. She also borowed her friend's expensive car and everything just to give a high impression of her. She was not interrested about the brother but my date wich she knows he is a successful man.As we walked to the car after dinner, he attempted to kiss me wich finally I did lol!he texted me to ask me is there anyway the kiss could be upgraded since I myself was in a hurry to stop it. two days after,he texted me asking me how my cousin was doing, I told him she's fine then asked me to say hi to her.After a week he asked me out again meantime he was asking for my cousin again and saying how pretty she is.. I told him yes I know. but he said i am sexier. Iasked him do you like her? He said are you serious with your question? I said yes. Then he said well I guess i wouldn't go wrong if I dated one of you since you both pretty.Notice we were texting each other. i asked him wich one exactly would you choose? I thought he was playing. Then he said is it ok if I ask her out then i will decide which one of you makes me feel more hot. i was kind of confused. He seems serious too. Do you think she charmed him? i texted him back to say how much he deceives me and also thank him for everything . he did not reply he probably felt asleep. I don't think I should go with him for the third date.please give me your opinion and some advice.. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all guys for your advice. I was naive before after reading and witnessing what happen to people's stories and also been thru stuff now my eyes are open. Again thank you.Yes he tries to say to me it was a misunderstanding.I move on.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 August 2009):
 You saw the red flags but went ahead. Listen to that little voice that tells you something is off...
The guy is a looser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009): I think that you should trust your instincts on this one! Lose the loser!
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