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writes:Back in 2000 I saw my niece who was 11 years old kiss a 6 year old boy. It was mutual but she has recently come to me and said that she cant believe that she did it. She is 21 now she and said she has never been with anyone younger than her and always had boyfriends 4 to 5 years older than her!! Shes worried that the kiss she had with this boy is wrong. Do you think its wrong?? I mean they were only kids and she didnt do it forceful they both wanted to kiss.. Im worried about her because she has let it get to her!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much both of you!! I have told her this and i think seeing it from other peoples views has made her feel much better :-) I never thought it was wrong i just saw how much it effected her and how much she regret it!! as the boy is now 16 she just thinks its wrong as she would never dream of kissing a 16 year oldmany thanks
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reader, nightwalker  +, writes (22 August 2009):
 Tell her she was only 11 years old... she'll do plenty of more crazy stuff in her life that she might regret. But that is life.. you try stuff and then you wonder if it was right or not.. well something made her kiss the boy and by that i mean a feeling.. i always say to myself... its better to regret for stuff you have done than for stuff you never tried. ... Oh plus just tell her this ALWAYS REMEMBER! LIFE IS NOT THE AMOUNT OF BREATHS YOU TAKE. IT'S THE MOMENTS THAT TAKE YOUR BREATH AWAY.... EVERYONE SHOULD LIVE THEIR LIFE AND NEVER REGRET... AS MUCH AS THEY CAN...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): No kids experiment with things, like playing doctor, and things that we think might be inappropriate, but at those young years they don't think it is about sex, they are just curious about each other, after all boys and girls are different. Reassure your neice that something as normal as an affectionate kiss is not going to ruin her life unless she lets it for some odd reason.
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