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writes:Ok this may seem messed up, but my whole life consists on that. I caught a girl checking out my guy. He gets so mad like red in the face throwing things and so on if a guy looks at me. But yet i let the b!tch know what i thought of her, and he told me off for it. So i started the guilt trips, like so its so bad if i get checked out, but if u do i got to let it ride? All he could say is let it go bec, if i say that to him hes all like so how can i trust you on and on about it. Also i have probz with a gang of 15 people, i am talking one against 15 and he makes me go places where ive got a chance of getting smashed, but he has a problem with this one guy from more then 9 years ago, i asked him if we can go to the city and the food courts all he says is ill get smashed were not going any where near there. Why do guys act so selfish, childish, pathetic and disrespectful all the time Reply to this Question
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reader, 48years  +, writes (30 December 2008):
 No, I'm saying that jealousy is self-induced.
Don't allow yourself to go through it.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): your both as bad as each other! hes right you shouldnt have said anything but then either should he say anything to men looking at you.
Neither of you trust each other if you get that jealous! talk to him and tell him you wont say anything to any girls in future (unless of course they're being realllllly disrespectful) but that it works both ways so if he says anything dump him and find someone whos flattered by other men looking at u!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): So what u are saying 48 years is that is k for men to react with jelousy and not girls. And for the record i wasnt jelous i was ticked off ok and u would be 2. Its a 6 year relationship
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 December 2008):
 Sounds like he's a insecure and immature guy. He isn't going to improve in his behavior towards you ,unless it actually escalate. Your relationship seems to lack the most basic parts, Love & Trust.
Now what about him do you really like?
I agree with Emily, move on.
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reader, 48years +, writes (28 December 2008):
Why stoop to "da bitch's" level? Neither of you is engaged...right? Take the high road in these matters.
When you told her what you thought of her, you opened a door where he may feel a need to apologize for your behavior-I'm not sayin' he'll do that, but you open doors when you react to your own jealousy.
Men are simpler creatures (not pathetic ones) and you lose their respect when you react with jealousy.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (28 December 2008):
Sounds like you are going out with a loser.
Dump him and find a real guy who is not a psycho.
Good Luck!! xx
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