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writes:i have a problem with trusting boys. i used to trust them but i hear things and it just makes me think they're all the same. i have a boyfriend and i love him so much, and he loves me. but i hear guys around my school and they talk about cheating on their girlfriends. i would never think they would do that cuz they're such nice people and they just don't seem like they would..they also been with their girlfriends a long time and i thought they really liked them. so this makes me think... what if my boyfriend does that to me? he's told me he would never ever think about doing this to me. and i tell him i'm worried and stuff. but it's just people can do this at any time.. and i wouldn't even know.. i'm just scared.. i would never ever cheat on my boyfriend or even think about it. but i don't know what he thinks.. am i just being too worried or what? will i ever be able to trust my boyfriend? i mean i do a litle.. but i still think that this could happen at any time.. help please?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys. and Luaris, i'm glad i'm not the only one :)
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reader, Luaris +, writes (29 December 2008):
 Im a guy in high school and I know EXACTLY what youre talking about (but backwards). I care about my gf very much but when I hear about other people being unfaithful in their realtionships, especially the people who had seemed decent and committed, it makes me wary of trusting her and it hurts our relationship becuz sometimes I overreact about little things from being so highstrung over worry. Just know youre not the only person who feels like this and if youre really scared of trusting him just dont rush into things and take things slow until you REALLY get to know him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): from my experience all guys are not the same and honestly you should always trust a person unless they give u reason otherwise, because if you dont you may push them away due to your insecurities. Trust is earned and it takes a while to form especially in young relationships. Listening to what people say isnt always best because you never really hear the real story and everyone circumstances is not the sane. I would go by what you knw but just be more aware of the little things
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