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writes:Boyfriend broke up with me 1 month ago. Wanted to be friends. Nothing changed, still sees me and flirts at work, even spent Christmas eve and day with me and daughter. Made comment I need to get out of management so he can kiss me at work before his decision. Now this week on vacation at brothers and no calls. Why? Is there hope?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (28 December 2008):
 So basically you're not worried what might happen, are cool with him ending the relationship, but possibly drifting into casual sex?
If you're cool with it, whats the problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo what should I do I really care for this guy. He always makes me feel special, great sex and is good to my daughter. He wanted to be friends cause of the work thing and because he does not know if he will get his visa renewal and knows I can't just move out of the country with my daughter. I believe he still cares but does not want to hurt us later if things don't work put. I don't think we should dwell on what might happen.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (28 December 2008):
He's adjusting to being single, and possibly trying to make it so you have a casual relationship..ie sex on tap.
When we split with someone, apart from if we have children with them, we should have some sort of time out from each other before we can maintain friends terms. Thats just the way it is. Be careful you dont slip into casual relationship status.
C xxxxx
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