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female
age
36-40,
*hiyu
writes:Hello..My name is Shiyu.. i have been in a relationship since 2 n half years.i love him like a crazy but he lied to me alwayzFirstly he lied to me about his financial status.He is a normal middle class guy.HE lied to me about his studies but he had left it in betweenThen he worked for some company but lied to me about that too and din go for work rather stick to playstationz n spent a huge amount on it.He is even full of debts and finally got him placed in a reputed company with good salary. he worked there for 2 months and then left the job and still lying to me about it.Finally when i asked him about his salary he has made some plans and is playing wit me sayin he is being abducted and his salary has been stolenPlease tell me what i should be doin dump him or still give him chance of imprivingOne thing is sure that he loves me a lotHE never sees any other female except mePlease guide me thru this
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reader, shiyu +, writes (2 January 2009):
shiyu is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you everyone.. i m glad soo many ppl r here to guide me thru this
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): put him on filthyliar.com don't take this from him. Don't let him do it to anybody else
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): This guy is a loser! I once had a husband who was a pathological liar. They lie even when they don't have to! I would end this right away. He will never change and you can't build a relationship on a weak foundation. And as I always say, honesty is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship! (That and communication) And if your guy is communicationg nothing but lies, what do you have to build on??? I'm telling you, you will have nothing but disappointment and feelings of betrayal if you stay with him. And, as pvtguy said...Life is too short...
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reader, Slo619  +, writes (28 December 2008):
You know the answer. He lied to you since day one. Once trust is broken you don't get it back. He is a manipulator. Hard to hear when you care I know. I was in similar situation for 6 years. I brought a kid into the situation though making it even harder to break away. Get out and don't look back! He will tell you what you want to hear don't listen. Good luck
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