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writes: I have been recently dating thsi guy, we are together for two months and a bit now. He does not know i am not a virgin, no one does. The other day we were talking about things and he is a virgin, and told me how he wanted his fisrt time to be with a virgin, because there "was something special about doing something unknown for both". I am not saying i am going to make love with him, but if someday we decide to, then i dont know. I told him i was.. twice every time he asked. should i keep my mouth shut? if not, when should i tell him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): doesnt matter why you told him a lie. and it doesnt matter if you dont say it out loud it still happened. You need to tell your boyfriend the truth if hes worth it he wont care! and if he cares well you cant cheat him out of something like that if it means that much to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all! let me explain why I lied though,
I am a catholic, and i wanted to reach marriage a virgin. the guy i lost my virginity to, i never thought we would brek up. And i though, if no on knew, it is like it never hppened. and i dnt want to tell him if we ar enever going to do it. Thats where I am stuck.
But i completly agree, the truth will aways come out..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): U should tell him.it is obviously important to him and u don't want to keep this a secret its way too important!!
Good luck!
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reader, BRITTBABII2  +, writes (28 December 2008):
Yes, I do think you should tell him. You shouldn't have lied in the first place because the truth always comes out no matter how hard you try to hide it. He might break up with you but if he doesn't love and care for you enough to forgive then he isn't worth it in the first place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): Yes, I do think you should tell him. You shouldn't have lied in the first place because the truth always comes out no matter how hard you try to hide it. He might break up with you but if he doesn't love and care for you enough to forgive then he isn't worth it in the first place.
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