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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok im 15 and not that smart so if i spell wrong please dont make fun of me. ok well i had this boyfriend that i loved verymuch but one day something went wrong he became mad 4 every little thing i would do. i once was talking to a guy that i new 4 a long time and he got so mad he would yell n say i was cheating and so on. well i loved him so much i just didnt think much of it. so he is 17 and i went to his work one day and one of his friends works there too! well he said hi to me and my x, didnt say anything but when we got in the car ha was yelling very loud and when we got to his house he kicked me and hit me and just sexualy hurt me in ways i dont want to explain. and as im telling u this i am crying. i yelled for him to stop and ran in the liveing room and he went somewere i didnt see i went to run out of the house he came up behind me and he stabed me with a butter knif in my leg i was on the ground wen he helped me up and into his car to my house and in mmy bed. that was the last time i saw him. this was allmost 5 months ago and i have just got a new boyfriend i like him but not love. everytime he goes to hug me i eather flintch or i drop to the floor scared. or when we were laying outaside looking at the stars and i fell asleep i woke up crying thinking he was comeing back to get me. i need help i dont want to be scared like this anymore i want to live my life and not be scared of this guy i want a bf that can kiss me with out flintching or i want to be able to sleep at night i want u to help me to get over this fear wat can i do besides seeing a counsaler srry dont no how to spell good. just please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): ok what you have to do is go to a happy place. when u start to think about him you need to think of things that make u feel safe or that make u happy. stay around ur family and just remember that u have people around u that love you. and if u do see him u need to call the cops or get a hold a person that can help you. i hope this helped and just to let u no i belive you.
good luck :)
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): u no what this post is true ok i am sick of people not beleving me i need help i dont want to go to someone i no that i have to see everyday i was asking u guys 4 help cuz i dont have to see u people or talk to u everyday... just please tell me how i can get un scared
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): Just be careful that all of this is TRUE
Because what you are saying is bad
If this is true talk to your mum or dad
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reader, 48years  +, writes (28 December 2008):
 Sweety, this is VERY serious. Can you talk to an adult about it? Your mom, dad or a trusted adult?
I know too many women whose lives have crumbled because of the kind of thing you describe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): Turn to God go join your local church mix with the people there. You don't have to believe in God at this stage.
The vast majority of people there will follow the path Of Jesus and offer love, kindness and understanding.
Maybe in time you will find a new boyfriend that will treat you gently and cherish you.
It's not a popular fashionable move I know, I understand that. Some of your friends may scorn you and laugh.
Maybe at this stage in life you may decide that God is not for you. Thats o.k.
If your life doesn't work out his door is always open to you.
God bless
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