| A
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hello all,well, my situation is simple yet complex.I was dating this FANTASTIC guy for almost two years and only now i realize what a jerk i had been to him, and nevertheless he always forgave me and understood me and was always with me.I broke up with him for the second time 4 months ago. This time it was painful and for a reason. he lives in south america, argentina. and i was going to study there, but as things turn out, it doesnt seem possible. Since i am on my last school year i decided it would be best for both if we broke it. if it were meant to be it would happen.the kicker is we were going to secretly marry in April and i am STILL so in love with him. and i am always messing it up. now, three weeks ago i told him it would be best if we just didnt talk it all. because i cant get over him. tricky thing is, i am now dating a guy from school. he is great, but it is SO unfair on him that i am still in love with my ex. he is a real nice bloke, and we both know we are going to have to break it off after school ends next year..but all i want to do is be with my ex, and talk o him and tell him all. and i know i shouldnt because i told him i didnt want to talk to him for awhile.. he has been really bad and ran away from home for a week, then came back. i feel like a real jerk and i dont know what to do..what should i do?
View related questions:
broke up, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, 14all  +, writes (28 December 2008):
It is always better to leave a significant length of time between one relationship and another. Your best bet is to take a long break from both guys and take your time before talking to either of them. Concentrate on your studies for a month or so, then see how you feel.
|
