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anonymous
writes:hi I have a question about moving in with my boyfriend. I'm 19 and he is 19. we have been friends for about three years but in a long distance relationship for 6 months. he stays in indiana and he's in school and has his own apartment. he's a really good person. he's doesn't do drugs and don't hang with wrong crowd. we really care about each other and we want to move in together. so I decided to go to shool out there because that's the only way my parents will let me go( they are very strict and doesn't approve of me having a boyfriend).they think that I will be staying on campus (but that's too expensive)but I will be staying with my boyfriend. I don't want to lie to my parents but I fear that they will disagree and won't allow me to go. I really need my parents help. I know when I move I will get a job and go to school. my boyfriend and I have everything planned but I just don't want to lie to my parents. Idon't know what to do!!!!please help me!!!!!
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 Yes, just talk to your parent and get their advice. Explain you want to ask them for their advice. and let them know you will do what ever they say or ask. but do stick to it.
I just hope your parents arent that strict over protective that they pull you out of the school change all together. do you think they would they do this if you told them? let me know and reply before you go tell them...
From my point of view because its a long distance relationship going to next level. I would be more enclined to go on campus at school but spend some nights with him each week just one or two, don't make it routine, make it random casual nights so that it surprises him. At least one weekend and one weeknight each week. after a while just let it come naturally and let it go with the flow.
before you know it the love will further grow.
All will take time.
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