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writes:If a girl that you're interested is always wearing pyjamas when you go to her house, does she just think of you as a friend?I'm not talking sexy negligee or lingerie, I'm talking flannel matching top and bottom pajamas. Don't get me wrong, she still looks amazing. Her hair and makeup are always done really nice. For the record, this is a girl that I'm interested in dating. We are just friends and have not discussed a relationship, whatsoever. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): In my opinion,she sees you as a friend.
Pajamas are a sign that she is really comfortable around you as a friend.
You never know What the future may bring.All the best!
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 I think it's not just a matter of sex appeal. It possible that she is just wearing something comfy and relaxing. If the two of you aren't into a potential man/woman relationship then she isn't too worried about being all dressed up. You even admit that she is amazing just like that.
It's cool that you can accept her just as she is. She probably knows it too. What a way to shape up a relationship. Being relaxed and cozy, while appreciating the friendship of a handsome gentleman. I know I have had a good male friend visit.I was so comfy and yes my hair and makeup was great, but I was wearing no less than.............
MY GRANNY GOWN!!!! *-)
And MY BARE FEET!!!
He liked me alot and I don't even think he gave second thought to what I was wearing. He saw beyound the clothing and looked for the beauty within. I found out that he had liked me for over a year and never told me. He did however tell everyone else! *LOL*
ummmmmmmmm Did I mention that we have now been together for almost 3 years? 8-)
Don't worry, just enjoy the pj's cause to tell you the truth not only is flannel warm and cozy, it's soft too!
Ask her out for NEW YEARS...when they drop the ball, or confetti, blow the horns, or shout and sing Auld Ang Syne, simply reach to hug her, look into her eyes and give her a kiss on the cheek. Watch her eyes and her face...it might give her away.
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): Agreed Askoldersis.. flannel matching top and bottom pajamas, that sounds like "tired after work and can't be bothered". Very friendly costume, but not exactly an invitation to passion. Dosent matter though caller, at least you've made the rank of friend, I still think it's worth a try.
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reader, the1st1 +, writes (29 December 2008):
i always wear pjs when i am home. it doesnt mean that she only likes you as a friend, she could just be more comfortable, or she could be letting you know that "she is READY for bed"... (SEX)...
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reader, asian tealeaf +, writes (29 December 2008):
 she may just feel very comfortable and super casual in her flannnels. she may be the type to just lounge round the home in her pjs, my guy friend wears his tighty whities when i go see him but were strictly friends, he is happily seeing a girl and im in a relationship myself. he just likes to lounge in them. so ur friend there may likely be comfortable as she is, and in her own territory
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (28 December 2008):
 All girls I know that are friends wear their pyjamas in their own house because it’s comfortable. It usually means she is very comfortable also around you.
If you really like her just ask her. Otherwise another man will come along and sweep her off of her feet and you will wish you had taken my advice.
Make it funny, tell her you really like her pyjamas and you were wondering if it would be ok if you could kiss her because she looks so lovely.
She will laugh and ask if you are serious, then look her in the eye and say... Yes.
Then kiss her.
If she's not into it just say sorry you didn’t know what got into you and you were being foolish she will forgive you but it may take some small time for the friendship to re-heal. no worries!
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