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Please help - need advice

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Question - (28 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Please help, am feeling lost and in need of some advice. I have found out after my partner of 3 years used my laptop to access the internet that he has subscribed to a dating site. We have been in a what I thought was a good relationship for 3 years - what do I do?

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A male reader, Luaris United States +, writes (29 December 2008):

Luaris agony auntI am in a good realtionship with my gf and I would NEVER cheat on her. That being said I created a myyearbook while we were dating and on it I put that I was single. Do I want to go have sex with another girl?: absolutley not! Am I curious to see if I could be found attractive by sum1 other than my gf while never ever considering actually meeting this person in real life?: absolutely! It (in my opinnion) really depends on if he just made a profile to see if women would like him or if he actually contacted these women to meet in real life.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008):

What should I do?

First you have to go sit alone.

Don't read books on the subject, don't ask advice from others.

Think. think and think again. Draw on Your resources.

Whats right whats wrong for YOU.

Where do your boundaries lie.

These will be different for you, me, any other poster, any author on the subject.

Then make your decision.

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