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writes:hi to everyone, i need your advice about thisim falling to my best friend and i can say she's hotwhich i think is not that good because she has a boyfriendwho is one of my friendshe's my friend for a long time which leads us to become best friendswe're like brother and sister we sometimes sleep togethershe's sweet and because of that im often jealous of her boyfriend i kissed her many times on her cheeks and lips but just a quick oneshe didn't bother it cuz for her it was just a friendly kissit was summer and we both decided to hangout just both of usbecause we really missed each other, cuz we didn't see eachother for a couple of days, while we were swimming she was wearing bathing suit and i just keep staring at herwhen we were done she go first to the comfort roomto change clothes and take a baththat time i really need to pee so i ask her and she unlocked the doorshe warned me not to look but when i was finish i turned aroundwe were both shock, that's the first time i saw naked bodyand she's my best friend i feel awkward but instead of going outit lead us to kissing then make out it was like 45 minutesi whispered to her that i love her and i wanna fuck herbut she's trying to push me and she go out wearing bathrobei was trying to talk to her and finally she listenwe talked abut sex and she said she don't know anything about iti said let's try but she went to my room and locked the doorwe were talking w/ the door blocking so she opened the doori apologize, we just talk at my bed we were both layingand holding hands, later i just hugged her and started kissing herat her neck i can say she's really wick when i kiss her in neckshe moaned but just a little bit so i kiss her at lips and i just feelthat both of us is making out i caress from her breast untied herbathrobe and removing it, i remove my short and we startedsex, it was long and when we were sleepy we were both nakedwe don't mind to wear our clothes so i just locked the door we huggedeach other while sleeping.. when we woke up she said she very feelawkward about what happened, she explained to me everything shefeel about it.. she also admitted that she loved me for a long timeand i also share about it w/ her.. starting the following day we starteddating but she keeps on thinking about her boyfriend and she's notsure if she'll break up w/ him.. we just keep our relationship secretnobody knows it.. now we're still dating the sex thing started last yearso we're more than a year dating we do sex occasionallyi really need your help guys whether we tell it to our friends and to herboyfriend and live happy but how about her boyfriend, every dayit becomes more complicated...........(btw sorry for my bad english)
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reader, ada o  +, writes (1 July 2010):
u both like each other u did a mistake of not tellin her the first place. the best thing is to let her boyfrnd knw abut wat is going on so both of u can be at heart and enjoy ur relationship. i believe he would understand. it happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): I just think if she loves you the way she says she does--she would be with you. it's complicated though. I've sort of been there with my best friend. We fell for each other and we kept our relationship a secret. There wasn't anyone else in our lives but he didn't want to rush into a relationship. In the beginning he wanted to be with me but then held off on it b/c we were best friends and he realized that he wanted to be single. I guess b/c it was me--his best friend---and now he finally figured he had a chance and so it scared him. But feelings never went away and eventually i told him, "we are together or not. And if you need space to figure that out then take your damn space." Not a week went by and he was calling me and then two weeks later we were officially together but 9 months later we broke up b/c again...he was getting scared i guess. It's hard dealing with a break up but it's even worse when it's your best friend especially if yall have been intimate. Trying to be friends again just doesnt work b/c you aren't just friends. you are friends with feelings. I'm stuck at a crossroads and I know that i cant be w/him b/c he can't give me what i want and i know i'm going to have to let him go. So take it from my experience---if she loves you and you love her--then yall should be together but if there is someone else then you need to just walk for now b/c that's no far to you. Trust me...losing your boyfriend/girlfriend is not as bad as losing your best friend all together. If i had known i was going to lose my best friend after dating him i would have never taken a chance on it.
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reader, Lowher  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 You dont care that your sharing her? Either she tells him or you need too. If you love her, do the right thing by her. If you want her, she cant have another boyfriend. No-body wants a cake they have to share. If you love her and she loves you, you've kept it a secret for far to long. Get he courage up and tell your friends, you can't help whom you fall in love with.
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