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writes:Hi can you help me out. My friends 8 of us have decided to go out on the town and have tatoo's done.Also we are all trying to get laid. However my best friend Susan is not coming and says we are all dim wits. Should i remain friends with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): PS: Please don't put on the tattoo "looking to get laid", you'll probably regret it, and men will avoid you like the plague.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): You are acting like a dimwit.... Susan is right
I had to check your age twice, I thought this was a question from a 13year old... "my friend called me a bad name, and won't get a tattoo with the rest of us girls.. Do you think I should stop talking to her"... Grow up, your a bloody grown woman in your 30's. School time is finished, go and do what you want to do, you don't need to ask people's permission. Susan isn't being nasty, she's being a good friend and telling you the truth.
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reader, littlemomma +, writes (28 December 2008):
 she's being smart and respecting herself, maybe you should think about doing the same? Ask yourself: Am I really this desperate? Why am doing this? When it's my time to die will I be proud of myself? Will I regret this later? ect ect, then make your desicion to stay friends with her or not.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (28 December 2008):
 It looks like she has taken that decision out your hands. Hardly surprising, I expect she would like some friends that actually act their age. For 36, you ARE acting like a dimwit!
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): You are considering breaking a friendship because she doesn't want to go out on the town and get tattoos and get laid? That's what children do in the playground. 'Susan didn't want to go on the swings with me so she's not my friend anymore.' At your age I'd think you would be a bit more mature than that. If there's more to it that tattoos and getting laid - if you two have other problems then maybe it's understandable. But dumping your best friend over this is a bit petty.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (28 December 2008):
 If you want to.
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reader, egrl202 +, writes (28 December 2008):
Susan respects her body, so should you. Understand that, of course you shold remain friends with her how she chooses to treat her body shouldnt effect your friendship.
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