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writes:My girlfriend lives in New Mexico and we converse everyday and have done for the last 18months and we have met each other twice and she is about to move over here to the U.K. soon and we are going to get married. I am struggling to have a conversation with her now what do we talk about ? I love her and she loves me How do I find a common topic Help Cos I do want her to move as I think the distance between us is the problem ?????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): You really should be much more concerned with getting to know her as a person, and she you, before even THINKING about getting married!!Good lawd, you have met one another twice. You would both be well-advised to talk about everyday things; things and issues that are important to you; what you want from a relationship and socializing together. It takes months to get to know someone well enough to know whether you're a good match.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks superbunny for that advice (: At the moment though i think about it every day before we speak, I get nots in my stomache before I log on. You see , She's a philosipher and her interests are a lot different to mine although we do have many other things in common. She loves to talk about Plato and Buddism and that type of thing. You must be thinking why are we getting together then? But there is this attraction between us that is undescribable. I just dont know ??????
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reader, superbunny +, writes (11 October 2007):
 I'm sure it'll be a lot lot easier when you're actually with her, doing things together etc. rather than thinking about what you're going to say, so try not to panic too much. :] try to talk about fairly open subjects if you're super nervous like movies or music or something - perhaps go to the cinema first so that you are together, but don't really have to talk then after you can talk about the film + then the conversation can flow from there or something. please try not to worry + i hope everything goes well. :] x
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (11 October 2007):
Talk about what you did today and about what you both might want to do after you are married. Things you want to show her in your country.
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