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writes:Hope someone can help me out in my hurt and confusion. I almost got involved with a married man I know but stopped myself before things got out of hand. There are still some hard feelings...perhaps more on my part. He did lead me on about his martial status but things cooled quickly when I found out he was married. He seems to want to talk to me and tells me all about his wife now which I find insenstive. He also makes unkind remarks about others and I told him that I find him to be uncaring about the feelings of others. If he is around now I just feel such pride in myself and want nothing to do with him. Everyone says we should be friends. I feel like I do not have the ability to do this or the desire. I would prefer to just ignore him. Is this harsh? Unfair? I have to keep seeing him and and want to cut all ties. Is this ok sometimes? Thank you for the answers I get
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): Hmmm, let's see, he is married and a cheater, he lied about being married and tried to seduce you anyway, and he doesn't have anything positive to say about others? What do you require in the character of a man or woman in order to be their friend? Do I need to say more?
You don't owe this pig anything.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (11 October 2007):
 Ignoring him might lead him to insist for a while. If you cut ties, on the other hand, he'll know exactly where he stands.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (11 October 2007):
 Personally i think you should cut all ties with this guy, nothing would ever had come of it. Invariably married guys never leave their wives, so ultimately you become the mistress or bit on the side, seeing him only when he can sneak away. Cut all ties and tell yourself that you had a lucky escape.
All the best & good luck x
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reader, flower girl +, writes (11 October 2007):
 I agree with rcn you do not owe him anything, and if you have nothing more to do with him then you can never be accused of doing anything.
Take care.x.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (11 October 2007):
 No, it's best you cut ties with him.
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