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writes:'ello, again. 'tis I, Escalaya. Anyways; Recently things have gotten alot better with my girlfriend, instead of just getting angry, and refusing to go, she comes along now, and her jealousy is cooling down. but.. Now, she wants me to hang out with her friends, and meet them, which i have no problem with, I love meeting new people.. but I warm up slowly xD; so, im usually quiet, unless there's a good vibe amongst everyone. unfortunately, most of her friends are lesbians, and guys who all have had big crushes on her, so most of them hate me xD; so I don't really talk much, and she gets mad that I don't talk, and make myself the center of attention like I do with other people. I try to explain to her, that I'm just uncomfortable, but she says I don't even try, and just continues being mad x_x;; how can I get her to understand?
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (12 October 2007):
Now you say you have great commmunication skill but you don't use them in front of her lesbian and hot for her friends. When you are with her and her friends is the best time to use those skills, otherwise you make it appear that she has a loser for a bf. This will only make them try harder to separate you.
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reader, Escalaya +, writes (12 October 2007):
Escalaya is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well, It's not like I don't have communication skills, I usually can go into ANY situation, and easily make myself the center of attention, and grab peoples attention and keep it easily. It's just I don't want to say something rude to them, or act like a normally do (she thinks the way I act is rude, and impolite) cause she'll just get mad at me for treating them like we've been friends all our lives! she does that every time, when I met her parents; even though I had them rolling in laughter, and they loved every moment of that, she got mad at me for using foul language, and dirty jokes infront of her parents, even though they OBVIOUSLY enjoyed it, and were having fun.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (12 October 2007):
You need to practice your communication skills and talk to them more.
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reader, Escalaya +, writes (12 October 2007):
Escalaya is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAh ! My apologies. They're smilies, of sorts. I had a feeling I probably shouldn't have used them here. Should have listened to those feelings. They're basically other versions of ":)" showing different emotions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): Escalaya - what do xD; and x_x;; mean?
I'm wondering if I'm missing something important.
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