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Why do I back out?

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Question - (11 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok i really want to make out with my girlfriend I've done it before so I'm kinda nervous :S She hasn't done it before ever and she told me she wants to do it. She's not that confident probably less confident than me :S

Every time i go to do it, i get the first kiss but then always seem to back out :S i dunno if she does it too but if i can just be confident enough to carry it on then it would be fine because I'm sure she would follow my lead

I really want to do it and i don't know why i do back out, i've never done it before but i really do love her so much.

Help please

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (11 October 2007):

Don't try to rush it. Kissing is supposed to be fun not stressful. Try a little more hugging when kissing.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2007):

kenny agony auntI think you are thinking to much about it, so its playing on your mind which is why you keep backing out. stop dwelling on it to much and it will happen when its ready to happen. You say you have done it before and she has not, so take lead and let one thing lead to another.

All the best & good luck

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