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anonymous
writes:How come it hurt when it went in and it didn't fit ?im a virgin and had sex with my bf, well TRIED to. LolBut it just wasn't happening. Any ideas or clues as to why it hurt ? =/ Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (12 October 2007):
 Okay, darling, let me tell you a little story.
The first time I had sex, it hurt like crazy and didn't even fit in. the next time? Same thing. The time after that? SAME THING. It didn't work for an entire MONTH. After four weeks of persistence, patience and a whole lot of fun (and pain), it finally worked and now it's fabulous.
The pain WILL go away and your boyfriend WILL get inside of you, it's just a matter of time. Make sure you use lots of lube, get as relaxed as you can, tell him to go VERRRYYYY slow, and it's easier if you take your hand and sort of "direct" his penis. He can't see what he's doing, remember?
Don't worry, sweetness. It'll happen. Be patient and have fun!
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): hey, dont worry, i know plenty of friends that have been "too tight" for their parteners to get in, and it hurt them too, just take it slowly, if it hurts too much, say can we stop, and then try again another time. dont worry..it will fit.
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reader, drama_diva +, writes (11 October 2007):
There's a few reasons. If you're not wet enough (or at all) it's not really going to go in, and if it does it's going to hurt like hell.
You might want to have him mess around "down there" a little more before trying to put it in you or try a lube like KY Jelly or Astroglide to make it slide in more easily.
Even if it doesn't go in too easily it's been my experience that once the guy gets started you'll get wet pretty quickly which really cuts down the pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): Well as it was your first time i expect you would have been nervous, this can sometimes cause your muscles etc to close up down below...making it harder.
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