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She's dreaming of her ex so what does that mean about us?

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Question - (11 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *elpingHand7 writes:

i apologize in advance if this is confusing but im really confused right now and need some help. ok so about a week ago i had a dream... well more of a nightmare in which my fiance broke up with me over the phone because she said her ex wanted her back. ok so i talked to her about it and we both know that it would never happen.

so for about a week or so everything was fine but then she said she had a dream where her ex said he wanted to get back together with her and she said yes. when she told me this today i was absolutely devestated and have been really dizzy and feeling numb inside.

so my question to you is what do these dreams mean?

p.s. we talked about it today and she said it would never ever happen and i trust her i just worry, they say in every dream there is a seed of truth and thats what worries me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007):

Stop worrying - they are only dreams, We cannot control what we dream about. some people try to analyse them but i personally think we dream about any old crap that is whistling about our head, please dont take them seriously.

If she dreamt that then dont worry, the next night it will be different. i have weird dreams all of the time.

take care and stop worrying.

xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007):

Some dreams do have a significant meaning.

If you're dreamiming that you need to go to the bathroom, you'd better wake up and get there pretty soon!

Otherwise, dreams are no more than your mind examining possible yearnings, problems or anxieties in your life.

Phil

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (11 October 2007):

Most dreams are either wishes or fears in your subconscious mind. Your wish was one of fear and hers was a wish. This does not mean either of you will act on the dream. A dream is not filtered by your morals and therfore you can do things in dreams that you would never do when you are awake.

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A female reader, XxAngelDust89xX United States +, writes (11 October 2007):

XxAngelDust89xX agony auntIf you trust her then don't worry. Dreams are exactly that dreams. They can be truth and they can also be lies. Until she gives you reason not to, trust her. And try not to worry so much. It's bad for your immune system ;) lol j/k.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007):

I'm not sure but I think that the saying is about jokes, not dreams. In every dream there is NOT a seed of truth. Dream theories differ and I'm sure there are some who may believe that if you dream about something, then it LITERALLY translates into that you want that thing to happen.

Mostly dreams are collections of unconscious/subconscious/conscious thoughts feelings and experiences that we gather through our days. I find that if I think of something during the day (say, a puppy or a plane crash) I will end up dreaming of it. You guys had a conversation about her ex calling and her going back- and tada she dreams about it. All it probably means is that it was on her mind, and it appeared in her dream state. It doesn't mean that she wants it to happen or that it is going to happen.

Don't worry!!! It's just a dream. They don't all have significant meaning.

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