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A week after our break up, she has now contacted me. Should I try to win her back/

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Question - (11 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *ageyz001 writes:

ok i need some advice badly last week my girlfriend dumped me and we havent spoken since then but today she was online on messenger and she sent me a message and i dont think that she is intrested in going out with me again but the thing is now that she has contacted me i feel as though i should try to win her back but dont know whether it is a good idea because she broke my heart and faith that there was anyone(ok woman) who would like me as boyfriend material

so do you think that it would be a good idea for me to try and win her back?

i dont think i said this earlier but i tend to go into relationships(IF ANY AT ALL) looking for more than dating and tend to set my mind towards the idea of her being "THE ONE"

all advice welcome thanks in advance

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A male reader, Farcar United States +, writes (11 October 2007):

Farcar agony auntWhat was the nature of her message? If it was just "hey" or "see you are online", it probably is just that. However, if it is something in nature that really could have been left unsaid or is clearly an attempt at contact, there is a good chance she is reaching out.

As far as "should I go back". Stop and ask yourself how you are doing. Is it getting better? go back and remember how those first couple of days after the breakup were for you. Do you want to go back there?

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (11 October 2007):

rcn agony auntBefore this is answered, I have one question for you: What do you look for in a women?

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