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writes: Dear Cupid, Here is the guy i really love but I really don't know if he Really loves me in return. I don't unbderstand his character towards me and the way he treated me. Hey! we don't have nay realationship but I just really do'nt know if we had, but only ion silence.. Please help me.. I really felt doubt if he loves me too..Thank you Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): I honestly believe that you do love him. Chances are you guys are really good friends but I'm afraid no one can answer this question but him. You need to confront him in person about his feelings. Then from there you should (if you know him very well as I am assuming you do) be able to tell if he is lying or if he is being sincere with his answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): you cant love him if u never dated him.... i know for a fact this guy i "loved" asked me out but it turns out he didnt like and just wanted a date for a party we were all going to.... i dumped him and it turns out the right guy was in front of me the hole time stop looking soo hard and u remember u cant be in love if u dont have a relationship...sorry its just the way it works!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): you cant love him if u arent going out.... go out see what happens.... trust me i know i felt the same way for a guy but it turns out he was a jerk that just wanted a date like his friends to this party... what i didnt know was that im really in love with my bff and now we are going out and i love him.... sorry to tell u it takes a while but thats how it works.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (13 October 2007):
YOU DO NOT LOVE HIM!
unless you have been with him, and had a relationship then how can you say you love him.
Love grows and is a special emotion.
talk to him, go out and then you'll know how he feels.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (11 October 2007):
You don't have enough info to answer your question. You need to talk to him and go out with him before trying to make an answer.
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