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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My bf tried to enter me last night, but it didn't go in. It was so painful, i was quite wet so i dont know what the problem was [sorry if that was 2 graphic]. Why did it hurt, and why was it soo 'tight' ???He even tried going slow, but it just hurt :( Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, natnatxxx +, writes (14 October 2007):
The first time this happened to me, it did not feel painful but just strange and uncomfortable. I was also tense, if you are a little tense, it may hurt. Explain to your boyfriend it hurt, or talk to someone you trust about it. Though its meant to feel good, some girls find it hurt. So just try again, and if it still hurts, maybe wait until your more developed or speak to a doctor about it.
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male
reader, Tommy7 +, writes (11 October 2007):
If he was able to enter you with his fingers he should be able to ener you with his penis. Just go slow, relax and keep trying.
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reader, XAlisonX +, writes (11 October 2007):
You havn't said if you have done this before, or not. If you are a virgin, the first time is always painful to begin with, try using a lubricant and see if it helps, also if you are anxious this can also affect it. I find through my own experience that sometimes it hepls if your relaxed. Don't worry about it your not alone here many people have the same problems first few times. hope this helps a little. xxx
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