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writes:Hi all...new here so not sure how this all works but really liked your posted discussions so thought that I would throw my current situation/question out there..The man that I have been involved with(great relationship) for sometime asked me a couple of months ago to marry him...just the other morning he was quiet ..asked him what was up and he says that he isn't sure on the marriage stuff anymore. Says that he loves me but I am confused...what is he really telling me?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): He may be having cold feet. Talk to him and ask him exactly what he wants? If he doesnt want to get married, then fine, sit back for a while and see what happens. It is up to you how you feel. If you love this guy and want to be with him then is it so important to get married? Some people look on it as just a piece of paper and a ring, others see it as the most important thing in their lives. But, that is up to you.
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reader, shygirl123 +, writes (11 October 2007):
shygirl123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe ring? He does have it on lay away and has been working on that...as for other issues between us? We get along fabulously...romance is A-one...He does have an 18year old daughter who is not very accepting of him moving forward with his life since his divorce 1 and 1/2 years ago??? Still confused....
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (11 October 2007):
Obviously he didn't understand your answer. Where's the ring.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): i think he really meant it when he said it, but it seems to me he is having second thoughts. has anything happened since then? have you had disagreements? has any romance gone?
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