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writes:how can i save my relationship he seems to get distant then all swwet and cuddly and stuff you know what i mean how do i " freeze " him in the happy side or just simply keep him happy Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (12 October 2007):
Do the things he likes without him having to ask you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): Sweetheart, happines is not excluselevy connected with our partenrs. There are many things in life that "contaminate" that state.The only fact u love him is enough for itself. A hug and putting him into knowleadge that ur there besides him would be i think the best way to show him now. Depends of the situation. But act naturally , as would come to you.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (11 October 2007):
 Everyone has their moods. Sometimes we feel happy about life, and in the mood to cuddle and be sweet with someone. Other times, we are stressed out by problems at work, or money concerns, or family issues. It can cause someone to seem distant because they have alot on their mind. It may have nothing to do with you at all. Be patient and give him his space, and I'm sure he'll be back to normal in no time, and eventually you'll realize this is just human behavior. Good luck.
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reader, sweetlilpeachx69 +, writes (11 October 2007):
sweetlilpeachx69 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks well i think he might have our 1 year anniversary on his mind cause he told me i need a sitter for my son and that is all i need to know then he said he knows i will be happy and not know what to think so i have no clue what we are doin in december but its big i got that much
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reader, kenny  +, writes (11 October 2007):
 Relationships are not all about you making him happy all the time. Neither should you try either, just be yourself and take things in your stide, and stop worrying about making him happy all the time. People invariby get high's and lows, sure we would all like to be on a high all the time, but for most of us this is near imposible. If you feel something is on his mind then talk to him, ask him if he is ok.
All the best x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): Hi Love,
Talk with him sweetheart, sometimes when you love someone you get scared and back off maybe he feels so much for you he goes all distant, But you need to talk to really know what he is feeling hunny or you will just be going round in circles in your head TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, flower girl +, writes (11 October 2007):
 How are you feeling babe as it is not all about keeping him happy all the time, you just be yourself and if that is not enough then he is not the right person for you.
Other than that there might be something on his mind at the moment that is worrying him, you could try having a chat with him and see if there is anything wrong, and see if there's anything you can do to help, but he needs to be considering you aswell.
Take care.xx.
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