A
female
age
30-35,
*exyMia27
writes:Hey....Im soo confused.. Im really attracted to men..espically with long hair...and have been with men, and have dated men, and have fancied them...but, when i look at a man, i dont get the sudden lustful feelings i get when i look at an attractive woman.. Don't get me wrong, im not lusting after my friends or just any girl, but if i see a particularly good looking girl, i can't help but think of being with her, as women to me are so sexy and beautiful..I havent mentioned this to any of my friends as i dont want them to think im a lesbian and then get akward around me..and im not sure that i am...but im just so attracted to them, and would love to be with a woman...but at the same time, do fancy men...I've just started dating a guy, and havent mentioned this to him, and ive begun to look at naked women on the internet, and get more turned on by them than i do of from him...Please help, i need some advice, maybe someone has had the same problem as me?Thank youMiax x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): mia,
you are one of the lucky people who can see the sensual beauty in all of us.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (11 October 2007):
 I frequently look at other women and realize which ones are beautiful to me, and even admire them but it's more of a competitive thing with me. I gather hair ideas, make-up, clothing and attitudes from other women. I may be curious about their bodies, I may even get a little turned on watching naked women in porn videos but there has to be men present for it to actually work for me. I think I pretend I am them or something...but I never really fantasize about being with another woman sexually. I know that I admire some women, and appreciate their beauty just like anyone would, but the thought of touching another woman intimately or kissing her on the lips is indeed a turn off to me. So it could be that you are indeed bi-sexual. I don't have any good advise to give you because I can see how it might make your female friends uncomfortable, as well as any potential men you may be seeing. But I wish you the best.
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