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writes:I have recently started going out with a lad that i've known for 2 years and we used to mess about all the time,but it doesn't feel as though i'm in a relationship as he doesnt really seem bothered. I don't know what to do about it. Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Passion sometimes fades overtime. Saying that, no excuse for one to get lazy or take the other for granted.
Talk about this with your boyfriend, let him know how you feel and how much you enjoyed messing around.
If you remind him of what you like most, he get the push he needs to revive!
Talk, Talk and more Talk is the answer. If only one person works at a relationship, things go from bad to worse. But you must let him know of your needs, to give him the opportunity to improve. If he really loves you, he will do his best to keep you and make your happy. If he doesn't find someone who can as we only live once.
Good luck x
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Everyone needs different things out of their relationship. Some people (usually the women) need constant reassurance that everything is okay, that their partner still likes them, and some (usually the men) are happy to go with the flow and assume their partner knows how much he loves them. If you need him to be a bit more vocal about his feelings then ask him but he subtle, you don't want to scare him off by being too intense!
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