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writes: my girlfriend has no interest in sex. she's 26 yrs old. is this normal? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): I don't think there has to be a reason for it, but if there is, perhaps, as her boyfriend, it's you?
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (17 January 2007):
I think it is healthy to have interest in sex at any age.
At 26, one has plenty of energy and should make the most of it.
It is important to determine if this is phycological or physical sympton.
Your girlfriend may have had a bad experience which has put her off in which case you may need to be supportive and patience.
Or if physical, it may be worth a visit to the doctor for medical advice.
Either way, you need to approach this subject with her and offer your help and support.
If you sensitive with her, she will be more comfortable to talk about it with you.
Good luck xxx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 January 2007):
It depends so much on the person but I agree that at 26 there's probably a reason for it. Is it that she doesn't want sex at all or just that she doesn't want it as much as you do because some people have different sex drives. However if she never wants to have sex at all ask her about it gently. Be aware that it will upset her and be comforting and supportive whatever her reasons. When you know her reason you'll be better equipped in coming up with a solution.
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