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Does he like me as much as he says he does? Because communication is not his strong point. He doesn't call as often as I'd like him to. Any thoughts?

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Question - (17 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2007)
A female Bangladesh age 30-35, *ilu_chicka writes:

Hello well there is this guy we have been talking for a while, and right know he due not live in the state i live in and he says after bootcamp he want to come live in cali to be with me, he also says he likes me a lot, the prob. is that I dont think he likes me as much as he says he does, because I call him every time and I leave a message or we talk for a couple mins then he says he has to go and he says he will call me back, but he never calls me back then he just does not even say sorry for not calling me back in an message, duse he like me as much as he says?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007):

He probably does like you, however, moving to live nearer you when he finishes bootcamp is a huge step at his age. Anyway, isn't he going to be in the army, marines, or whatever once he's out of bootcamp?

If I were you, I would enjoy this for what it is - and you could always ask him - but I wouldn't pin too much hope on it.......perhaps you can date others who live closer.

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A female reader, ingotblue United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2007):

ingotblue agony auntIf he is saying he will move down/up to be with you then he must do, to behonest you look to be both a little young for such a move.

Actions do however speak louder than words, ask him to be honest with you.

If he keeps side stepping the issue maybe you are best rid of him.

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