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*stefx
writes:My boyfriend and his ex were together for 2 years and were engaged. before he met me, he liked this girl i have met her once. while i was with him he kept looking at her. i looked at his phone once too, and there was a few photos of her on there. he still talks to his ex, and sees her everynow and again, but always says how much he dislikes her, i dont understand?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2007): girl I am in the same situation execpt for the pics I know its hard very hard! Always try to be there for him and make him feel better than he was in his last realtionship. That's what I do and this will make your realtionship great. Good Luck and let's hope we surivie.
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reader, Xstefx +, writes (23 January 2007):
Xstefx is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for all the answers guys, but he still has the engagement ring?! what does that mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): if he says he dislikes her and still meets her and talks to her and has photos of her on his phone you should probably confront him on the choice he is making and if he really loves you he won't still have feeling for his ex he will have straight up feels for you do u get what am saying hope so good luck wish you all the best xxx christmas
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (17 January 2007):
 If he dislikes her, why keep photos to remind him of her?
Sorry, he is still into her, no matter what he says.
Move on and good luck
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reader, melschatbox  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 How long have the two of you been together? It's normal to feel "jealousy" of what you perceive that the two of them had. Although, it's never quite as good as what our imaginations make of it. If you feel he's trustworthy..then it's probably nothing. He still cares for her in some way. They were almost married. (I know that hurts) But, think of it this way..he can use his experiences that he's learned about relationships with you. This just may make the two of you a stronger couple. Good Luck.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 January 2007):
 I'm totally over my ex but I still have a pic of him on my phone because I rarely get to see him and he's still a mate. I also have loads of pics of other male friends on my phone who mean nothing to me. He probably feels responsible for his ex, especially if it was him who broke up with her, and feels obliged to keep an eye on her. This shouldn't matter to you unless you don't trust him.
CD
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