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*ales_taffy
writes:My girlfriend finished with me 2 days ago, the reason she said was we grow apart witch I think is rubish. We been together for 4 cracking year! I know she still love and she keep texting me ervery hour. I cant stand it without her and i want to be with her for the rest of my life. What should I do?
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reader, wales_taffy +, writes (17 January 2007):
wales_taffy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all the help you all give me. I have txt my ex saying if you want me to move on you have too stop txting me and seeing me! I haven't have any txt for 14 hour there for I can move on there plenty of girls out there.
thanx again
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Early days for any outcome I would say.
I am confused as well though, if girlfriend says you have grown apart, why does she text you every hour.
Are you texting her every hour and she feels obliged to reply?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Hey, my fellow welshman. Unfortunately the nature of break ups is that the person who wants out always gets their way. It's unfair yes but if you really love her you have to let her go. Holding onto her will just drive her further away.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 I agree with "I Don't Lie". Give her some breathing room. Here's a little script for you to memorize:
"I'm sorry, but I don't want to lose you, but if this relationship is over, I want to break it off clean. I don't want you texting me, and I don't want to see you. If you change your mind, and want me back in your life, you can call me on the phone. Otherwise, I'm moving on with my life. Goodbye."
If that doesn't light a fire under ass, nothing will. She will be calling you before you know it, but don't you make the first move. I repeat: DON'T YOU MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!
Don't be waiting by the phone either. Go out and enjoy yourself. Who knows, you might find someone you like even better. . . just in case she never calls back. LOL.
Good luck!
Good luck!
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (17 January 2007):
 There are some things I would recommend people to do but smouldering her to get back with you is something I definitely would not!! She knows you still love her deeply, and believe you me, she still does love you too!! HOWEVER, whatever the reasons shes calling the relationship off (only she truly knows why, could be a million and one reasons), do you think that telling her about how much you still love her constantly will help??!! If you really want her back, I suggest you leave her be. Let her stew for a while and rethink what she wants. Give her the space and let her miss you!! I cant stress this enough. The more you beg and contact her, the more you're not giving her the time to miss you!! If you're sure that she still loves you, then be sure that she will miss your presence too!! Give a few weeks, and see what she says about things. If shes still adamant she wants to break up mvoe on and never ever put your life on hold for someone else!! Good luck! Be strong and better yourself in the meantime.
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reader, eternalleroze  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Hi there , theres nothing wrong in telling her what you feel ,she obviously misses you too. Lemme tell you love needs a lot of work!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): Guy please let her want to you cant do without her... and tell her you never mean to hurt her in any ways.... talk to her and she will come back to you...
Hope this helps.
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