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writes: Hi everyoneDoes anyone have any advice as im in a great relationship my man and i really like each other but sometimes he goes away with work and i miss him so bad.Even when he is around when we both go off to work I really miss him. I see him 3-4 times a week but when im not with him seem to spend most of my time thinking about him or wanting to go and see him Although id luv to go see him every night I dont want to smother himI do have interests and hobbies of my own buthe is always on my mindI have been seeing him for about 7 months now and think the world of him He thinks im great too and is always saying really nice things to me so why do I get so upset when im not with him Why cant i just be happy about the good times we shareDoes anyone have any advice Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (17 January 2007):
Those symptoms are part of what is called being in love.
It is normal to miss your beloved but you need to give him personal space so that you do not push him away.
Try to keep busy and when you think about him, just look forward to next time you are going to see him again.
Remember, he loves you back and he chooses to be with you.
Enjoy your space too. x
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 January 2007):
Yes. Whatever you do don't tell him you feel like this as it will scare him off. Try and subtly up the number of times a week you see each other and get some hobbies/go see your own friends when you can't be with him to distract yourself. You've been together for seven months but once it's a year maybe you could move in together?
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