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writes:Right.. there is this lad that i have liked for a year secretly and one night i got drunk and texted him telling him..He kept it to himself but told me he didn't like me that way.A week later we were on MSN and he told me he liked me too. I was so happy. We were at school at the time (college now) and people found out and then he told me he was drunk!I hate him for that because i have texts and emails from him tellin me he likes me. The problem is he has started flirting again and i still like him.But if i tell him how i feel he will just do the same thing.. Is he embarased of me?PLease help on what i should do?
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reader, violentviolet +, writes (24 January 2007):
 This guy is a prick!!Next time he flirts with you, just smile at him sympathetically like he's some sort of retard, and dignifiedly walk away.Or else, laugh and give him your most withering look, and walk away shaking your head.It may not seem like the best thing to do at the moment because you like him, but at least this way you come out of it with dignity in tact and it is him that looks like the fool. And this way you are in control of the situation, not him.If hes REALLY serious about liking you, then acting cool with him won't put him off, but if he only flirts with you because he enjoys the attention from someone who (he thinks) is a garanteed hit, then he'll leave you alone. Either way, you can find out his true intentions.But, in keeping with the rest of the posts, I'd say he is DEFINATELY not worth the hassle.
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reader, kenny +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Yeh im with the other two posts, i think this guy is a complete twit. He was playing you, and took you for a fool, then blamed you for it.
I think you should move on, there are better guys than this out there.
Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): he probably isn't embarased he probably is ashamed for leading you on telling you he liked u when he was drunk and its his fault not yours if he doesn't like you when he is sober or not he doesn't not deserver you cuz he is a jerk and u know as well as i know you can do better then hime anyways good luck xxx
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reader, x.Helpful.Cupid.x +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Hiya.
I think this guy is a complete idiot. If he wants to say he likes you, he HAS 2 mean it! I think you should move on. Hes just messing you around and then blaming you for what he has done, i say move on and find someone thats right for you and is worth your time. You deserve more.
Good luck
xx
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