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36-40,
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writes:My ex broke up with me about a week and a half ago. In this relationship, he has been nothing but rude to me and he treats me so horrible when I was being nice to him all the time. He was so emotionally and verbally abusive to me for the last 2 months of our relationship. During those 2 months I found out he was talking to other girls on the phone. He called me yesterday 2 times and I didn't answer because I'm thinking in my head why is he calling me for if he BROKE up with me. At this time I've come to my senses and realized why did I put up with his crap for so long and why did I always come back to him if he treated me this bad.I called him today to see what he could possibly want? I called two times and when I said hi he didn't even respond back, he's just listening so I hung up. Then I called a little later, then he said the reason he called yesterday was just to say "hi". But we couldn't really talk because he was busy at the moment.What is this all about? I'm so confused, what does he want? I'm not going back to him like before when he used to do this to me. I would have to call him back all the time when he would "break" things off for no reason. So I guess since I didn't call back this time when he "broke" things off again, I guess he felt stupid or is seeing im strong now. Could anyone possibly tell me what he wants? I know he's still talking to this other girl so why does he want to talk to me for?
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reader, katybear  +, writes (18 January 2007):
You know what he wants a reaction ... The saying don't know what you've got till its gone comes to mind and trust me he knows it now...You didn't go running back which is the different to normal and what he wants you to be doing, as you havent he now wants to no whats happening and why you aint chasin ... Stand strong don't be chasin start replacing...
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reader, ingotblue  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 he wants his cake and to eat it, he had a door mat (you know you were) and he loved having that control over you, you are out of it now leave well alone and move on, dont waste any more time, cedit or emotion on him!
Now is the time to rebuild your life, channel the feelings in to somethig productive to getting your self back on the road and learn who you are before entering any more relationships, you dont want another like that one.
good luck
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