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writes:Hi everyoneMy question is just how much is too much time to wanna spend with your bf. I wanna give my bf time to himself but also wanna see him loadsId luv to see him everyday but dont wanna be too much so how much can i ask if he wants to see me I dont wanna push him away I really like this guy been with him about 6 monthsThanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe has said (a long time ago ) that he does like to have his own space just to be him
Thanks for your help everyone
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Remember that people need personal space too, if you do not want to push them away then be cool and allow them to breath. You have your own life to live as well.
Frequency will depend from couple to couple. Six months does not mean that you should see each other every day, it is down to both of you and what type of relationship you have.
Try not to come on to strong and enjoy your time together when you see each other.
Good luck
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reader, x.Helpful.Cupid.x +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Hiya.
Well, I can already tell your mad about this guy, so i can understand your problem. The key to the right balance is..friends. Remember not to neglect your friends, and always make time for them, just relax and casually call your boyfriend in between and see if he would like to meet up, also, ask him how often he would like to see you, this could be really helpful, as you will know how much he expects to see of you. Good luck xx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 January 2007):
 I think the best relationships are where both people get their share of space from the other. Look at older couples you know. The best ones know to let the other out of their sight every now and then. I reckon you should aim for seeing each other five days out of seven and make plans with your friends on the other days. It's so important not to neglect friends just because you have a boyfriend!
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reader, cam  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 lol in my opininon there culd neva b 2 much time but u could just ask him. the best advice you could get on this would be from him. if you dont like that idea then you could just ask him what he's doin befor you say u wanna come see him, if he says nothing then just ask if he wants 2 come see you or something. good luck with it hope this helped
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reader, Xstefx +, writes (17 January 2007):
 hello
i understand what you mean, you want to be with your man, but at the same time give him space.
has he ever mentioned he wanted space or does he ever seem like he wants it?!
sometimes not seeing each other for a couple of days is good, as you know the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" also it allows you to catvh up on things you have missed, like friends or other commitments.
ive been with my boyfriend 7 months and we spend every single night together, but everyother weekend we go out seperatly with friends.
it doesnt hurt to be with each other all the time nor does it hurt to be away from each other
hope this helps
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