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36-40,
*enn~jenn
writes:my boyfriend is completely ignoring me not answering my calls and when he does he has nothing to say or has a bad attitude and wants to start arguments that bad part is i'm 8 1/2 months pregnant with his child what should i do?
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reader, jenn~jenn +, writes (19 January 2007):
jenn~jenn is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni really apreciate all the advise, and deep down i know all of you are right. but i already have one child i am solely responsible for and i really hoped that i would have someone to help me out this time around.
he did finally contact me but he just acted like, oh well you didn't go in labor, i just told him that he could keep on ignoring me if he wanted and that when i actually went in labor and can't get in contact with him that it would be him who missed out on his son's first breath of life not me. since then he hasn't had too much to say.
thank you
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (17 January 2007):
he is being selfish and imature. This is a time where you need him most.
But he is not supportive, you can force it out of him. You may have to do this on your own and be strong.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): firstly dont get stressed, your carrying a baby and are heavily pregnant. the last thing you need is stress so take your mind off him.
sometimes young men find it difficult to except theyre going to be fathers, they still want a social life, the attention etc...all this goes with a baby. but when the baby is born the paternal instict usually kicks in and he wants to know. that or hes a jack ass and your better off without him any where near you or the baby.
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reader, kim6906 +, writes (17 January 2007):
the best thing to do is get on with your own life. concentrate on you and your unborn child he obviously isnt man enough to deal with father hood it is him who is going to miss out. if he wont get in contact then get on to the child support agency and he will have to pay his dues if he is big enough to get you pregnant then he should be big enough to take care of you. trust me motherhood is such a beautiful thing you should enjoy.
good luck
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