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writes:hey. Im eighteen and I've had a crush on my best friend for the last four years. Hes the kind of guy who can get any girl he wants, and be confident without seeming arrogant. He was out of town for half of last year, then in October he told me that he loved me (via text message, and then again later over the phone). When he came back I was very confused because we didn't start dating or anything. He just started kissing me heaps, but only when no-one was looking. Then he was away over christmas, he came back and I only got to see him for two days before he left again. He'll be gone for a month and then hes back for good, but I don't know whats going on between us. I'm worried that he mightn't care about me anymore because when he got back after xmas he only kised me once and it wasn't even open-mouthed. It was just a peck, and he only gave it to me because i laughed when he kissed me on the forehead.I know that theres no-one else because we have the kind of relationship where he'd tell me if he liked someone else. Should I wait until he gets back and see if hes still acting strange? Or just ask him whats going on? And if I ask him should I just text and pretend its no big deal, or ring him?
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reader, Shelley-jade  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 This is hard. Its sounds as though he may be missing a female role in he's life. Going away and knowing that he has you to come back to.
Ask him what he really thinks about your 'relationship'. See where it is heading.
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reader, cam +, writes (17 January 2007):
 i think u'd b rite to just come out with it. your close freinds if thats what you feel lyk doin then thats wat you should do. i wuld suggest the phone tho, not that txt's cant be personal simply that you can get a proper conversation when on tha phone. sry if i missed sumfin i hav 2 go i hope this helped
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